Almost every average man loves strippers. Even those who canâ€™t go to strip clubs, they have fantasy of a beautiful sexy girl dancing topless for them. Here are few things why men desire a female stripper. As a woman, you can use these details to spruce up your sex life even when your hubby doesnâ€™t go to strip clubs.
Things Men Love About Strippers
1. The Untold Fantasy: Strippers have talent to blow up mood of men with sexy, naked fantasy. Birthday party strippers can do activities most men desire and a lot of wives donâ€™t do in their life. They are well-trained to satisfy their fantasies and please them. As a woman, you can visit your local sex shop and bring some fun toys handy. Learn pole dancing and have a pole in your bedroom. Surprise your hubby as his personal stripper.
2. Do More, Talk Less: Strippers only perform, never talk. When they start talking, this is all for the audience.
3. Variety Can Turn Them On: If a man finds different varieties of women at once, he gets sexually alive. From thick girls with small busts to full-of-life women with large implants, they can enjoy everything in strip clubs. They can enjoy instant access to several varieties of life in a strip club. As a wife of a man, you can reinvent your look and your attire. You donâ€™t have to wear full makeover. You can color up your hair or change hairstyle.
4. Passion: Best thing men love the most is aggression in love. An experienced stripper always goes for exactly what she loves. She cannot be shy and never waits for him to move first. As a woman, you can do what a stripper mostly does with a man. When he comes back after a long hectic day, just take him off and act spontaneously and creatively. Play a little lamb with him.
5. Frustration: Basically, this is the foremost reason why men go to the strip clubs. Either they are not getting sexual pleasure or they are not satisfied from their partners. If he cannot get anything interesting at his home, he would definitely like to hit the nearest strip club. This is the place where he can gain his self-confidence back at least for a few hours and get sexual benefit. He can get instant remedy from his frustrated life in this situation and he gets more active energy from a striper. If he had more fulfilling, active sex life, then he wouldnâ€™t have to choose other way. That way, a lady can have something naughty and play when he comes back at home.
6. Quick Access: Men also love to go for strippers because they are not confident enough to find out dates. They have money but not have enough time. By using money, they can get the pleasure of a pretty girl they think they couldnâ€™t get her in their life. Without putting much effort, they can have some action in the nearest strip club. However, strippers canâ€™t give real love in strip clubs. But you can show him how important he is for you.
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What does it take to be a good lover? There are those who believe that every time you have sex it will be good(if you believe that one, I have a bridge in New York to sell you for cheap). The truth is most sexual encounters are mediocre at best.
Why? Because many believe that to be good at something all you need to do is show up. A good athlete will move into greatness just because he shows up for the game. A boxer because he makes it into the ring. But how many “good” athletes have lost the big match or big game because they discovered good wasn’t good enough.
When it comes to love between a husband and wife or two people who are in love and seeking to express themselves sexually there is a need to go from being average to good and good to great. The question is, how do you do that. I hope to offer a few pointers to men and women to help in that endeavor.
1) Understand women are like crock pots and men are like microwaves – men are so ready to go at a moment’s notice that a woman can still be cool while he is burning up with desire. Patience is a virtue when one engages in lovemaking.
2) Satisfy her first – men who seek to gain their pleasure first typically are too tired to do anything of value for the woman that they love. Seek first to make sure she is taken care of so that you find your ultimate satisfaction in her pleasure.
3) Climaxes are not mandatory for women – a woman can enjoy the sexual experience immensely and yet not experience an orgasm. As a man you need to be sensitive and see where she stands. If she is the type who wants a climax every time, give it to her. If she does not want to have one, then cuddle touch and give her what she wants.
1) Understand men are like microwaves and women are like crock pots – a man typically can heat up very quickly and many times he only needs to see what attracts him to a woman in order to be turned on. Don’t stir a man to action unless you are ready to act with him. To do so with no desire to complete his desire is unfair.
2) Engage physically, vocally and emotionally – nothing turns a man off quicker than a woman who is engaged in lovemaking thinking “are you done yet?” If a man feels that it can destroy his intention to please the woman he is with.
3) Climaxes are mandatory for a man – if you want to boost a man’s ego, make sure he finishes in style. Otherwise he will be a frustrated soul.
Go get em, you tigers and miss tigers.
You’ve discovered that your husband had an affair and you want answers. You have tried talking to him about it before, but didn’t get the response you felt you deserved. If “Sorry Baby, I promise it won’t happen again” isn’t enough, let’s explore some strategies on how to get the truth.
First off, you need to decide on if you are going to take him back and try to save your marriage. If you are not sure you still want him, no explanation that he gives will satisfy you. Next, you need to understand why he isn’t and doesn’t want to talk about the affair.
Right now he is feeling guilty and ashamed. He realizes he has made a huge mistake. He is also afraid that telling you the truth will hurt you even more. Talking about the affair increases the guilt an anxiety that he feels. He thinks staying silent is his best option and time will make it better. So understand that it will be very difficult to talk about the affair.
Why should you feel sorry for him? You were the one that was cheated on. Well, you shouldn’t feel sorry for him. You need answers so you can heal. So here’s how to approach questioning your man about the affair so he will open up and give you the truth.
Don’t become emotionally abusive towards him when he gives and answer that you feel is incomplete or don’t like. Although it may be difficult, try to keep cool and understand why. You also want to listen. Don’t hit him with a long list of questions. Give him a chance to think about what he’s going to say. Most times if you just remain silent, he will sense that you need more and elaborate.
Don’t expect all the details. Remember, this is difficult for him too. So he most likely will not give all the specific details you ask about. You want to stick to the questions that will allow you to move on. So knowing details like where and how many times they met may not help you.
Finally realize it may take a few or even several conversations for you to get all the answers you need. Your main objective is to find out why it happened and prevent it from happening again. Once you get the answers you need, it best to forgive and try save your marriage if that’s what’s important to you.
However, if after all your attempts to get him to talk about the fair isn’t working, it may be best to seek professional help. Seeking out the help of an experienced marriage counselor may finally get him to open up and be truthful.
People with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) are less able to consider the perspective of their conversational partner, says research from the University of Waterloo. The findings may lead to new remediation that can improve the way individuals with the disorder interact and communicate with others.
The research appears in two published studies, one in the Journal of Speech, Language, and Hearing Research is focused on children, the other addresses adults and appears in the Journal of Attention Disorders.
“In conversation, individuals need to pay attention to the knowledge and perspective of one another,” said Professor Elizabeth Nilsen, co-author of the studies. “The ability to see the perspective of the other is essential for successful communication, allowing each speaker to modify their response or reaction accordingly.”
In one study, researchers examined children with and without a diagnosis of ADHD, and in the other study undergraduate students with varying levels of ADHD symptoms participated. Participants had to follow instructions on how to move objects in a display case based on direction from another person who had an obstructed view of some of the items. Video cameras captured where the participants were looking as they heard the instructions, showing that the participants with ADHD made more errors interpreting which items they were asked to move based on their partner’s limited view of the objects.
“These studies suggest the more severe ADHD symptoms individuals have, they less they use the perspective of the speaker to guide their interpretation of basic statements,” said Professor Nilsen.
The researchers are interested in how these findings may relate to other social behaviors, potentially providing better understanding of ADHD-related difficulties in more complex social situations.
“Our findings are important because they allow us to think about possible remediation strategies,” said Professor Nilsen. “Social skills training programs for children with ADHD often don’t show substantial benefits when children return to their social environments, and if we have a better sense of what is causing the difficulties in communication and then target remediation at these particular skills, intervention programs may be able to achieve more beneficial outcomes.”
Following another’s gaze or looking in the direction someone is pointing, two examples of receptive joint attention, is significantly heritable according to new study results from researchers at the Yerkes National Primate Research Center, Emory University. Determining such communicative cues are significantly heritable means variation in this ability has a genetic basis, which led the researchers to the vasopressin receptor gene, known for its role in social bonding.
The study results, which are published in Scientific Reports, give researchers insight into the biology of disorders in which receptive joint attention is compromised, such as autism spectrum disorders (ASD), and may ultimately lead to new diagnosis and treatment strategies.
According to Yerkes researchers Larry Young, PhD, and Bill Hopkins, PhD, co-authors of the study, receptive joint attention is important for developing complex cognitive processes, including language and theory of mind, and poor joint attention abilities may be a core feature in children with or at risk of developing ASD.
Young is division chief of Behavioral Neuroscience and Psychiatric Disorders at Yerkes, director of the Center for Translational Social Neuroscience (CTSN) at Emory and William P. Timmie Professor in the Emory University School of Medicine Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences. Yerkes researcher Hopkins is also a core faculty member in the Neuroscience Institute of Georgia State University and newly named science director of the Iowa Primate Learning Sanctuary.
Young and Hopkins led a collaborative team of researchers from Yerkes, the CTSN, the Neuroscience Institute at Georgia State University and the University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center. They studied chimpanzees to determine the extent to which the animals follow gaze or pointing by a human.
“We used chimpanzees in this behavioral study because their receptive joint attention abilities are well documented and their closeness to humans makes the study results the most likely to be generalizable to humans,” says Hopkins.
Young’s previous research in which he showed the vasopressin receptor gene was necessary for remembering individuals (or social memories) and for social bonding in male rodents was key to designing the current study. According to Young, variation in the length of a stretch of repetitive DNA, known as junk DNA, in the control region of the vasopressin receptor gene predicted if a male prairie vole was likely to form monogamous bonds with a mate. Human-based studies suggest that a similar repetitive element, referred to as RS3, in the control region of the human vasopressin receptor gene predicts romantic relationship quality and generosity.
The current research team discovered about two-thirds of chimpanzees are completely missing the RS3 element that seems to influence social relationships in humans, while the remaining one third has the human-like sequence.
“Male chimpanzees with the human-like RS3 sequence displayed higher levels of joint attention and, therefore, needed fewer social cues to elicit an orienting response in the same direction as the experimenter than those missing the sequence,” says Hopkins. “There was no effect of this gene in female chimpanzees, consistent with the vole and human studies in which the vasopressin gene specifically affects male social behaviors,” Young adds.
A previous study by Hopkins and his M.D. Anderson-based colleagues found male chimpanzees with the human-like RS3 sequence were more dominant than males lacking the RS3. Hopkins and Young speculate this dominance may be achieved because the males with RS3 are more socially competent at reading communicative cues of others. “They are more socially savvy and, thus, may be more likely to negotiate social hierarchies more efficiently,” says Hopkins.
“The unusual genetic variation in the RS3 of chimpanzee vasopressin receptor gene makes chimpanzees an excellent animal model for exploring the role of the vasopressin receptor on social behaviors and, hopefully, translating our findings to humans,” says Young. “We can provide insights into the evolution of human social behaviors, and because of the similarities between chimpanzees and humans, we can work toward better understanding the role of biological mechanisms and how they influence cognitive and communicative abilities of primates, including humans,” Young continues.
The team’s continuing work will include more sophisticated behavioral studies as well as exploration of the contribution of the oxytocin receptor gene on social behavior and cognition in chimpanzees.
Love is in the air. Or so we hope, especially for this single mom. This season, fall in love. Where is the best place? That’s the question, I’ve asked myself over and over again. Where do people go to find love?
If you don’t meet men through your friends or work, where do you meet them? I’ve even heard you can meet someone at the grocery store. The last few times I’ve been grocery shopping I’ve looked like a shlumpadinka (where you look like you just rolled out of bed). I’ve seen hot, no ring wearing men both times, so I told myself I’m at least going to look somewhat presentable even going to pick up milk. I don’t want to find him and then feel so uncomfortable looking like a shlumpa that I don’t take advantage and talk to him. Needless to say, I haven’t found him at the store either.
When I became a single mom, I thought that finding love would be even more difficult. I wasn’t able to find it before when I wasn’t a mom, what makes me think I will find it now that I also have a child?
The funny thing is 67% of men are willing to date a single mom. Sixty-seven percent?? Wow! Now I know I’m going to find love THIS year! Yep, I’m putting that out there! If you don’t put it out there and make yourself available, then it’s not going to happen. So where do I go to do it? Isn’t that the million dollar question?!
In asking the question, “Where do you find love,” surprisingly I found the same answer again and again. My sister knows four people who found love here. My friends have friends who found it at the same place. If all of these people are able to find love here, then it’s definitely worth trying… Match.com. I know, I know. Online dating? Really, Jessica? Yes, really.
Online dating. It’s not what it used to be. The stigma has been erased. People aren’t thinking you’re weird to date online. As single parents, we don’t have the same time we did when we were single without kids. Let’s be honest, we want things to be fast and easy. What could be better or easier than to look online, when you have the time, in your own way, and when it’s convenient for you?
You can email who you want, when you want, without any pressure. It’s on your own terms. And as single parents, isn’t that what we need? Dating on our own terms. YYYAAYYY!
And the best part? You have two times the dating success than not dating online. Two times… Think about that. Double the chances. You MUST like those odds! You know what’s even better than that? You can email people in your pj’s without doing your hair or makeup to find out if he’s even a match for you.
And what you’re currently doing (or not doing) isn’t working for you. Put yourself out there and be open. Whether it’s online or in person, you never know where you’ll find him. So get out there. Take a chance. Take a leap. Find love. Your true love is waiting to meet you! Now if it was only that easy to write your profile… hmmmm, where to start???
Valentine’s Day – How to be Happy Alone
Happy single awareness day!
Donâ€™t commiserate yourself on the annual lack of boyfriend/girlfriend, there is worse things you could be doing than weeping at photos and drunk texting your ex.
We ‘ll give you 5 awesome things that don’t require a special someone to make your valentine day special just for you.
Don’t let yourself feel pressured to do anything BIG!
One advantage about being single, it’s not having to stress out what are you gonna do on the 14th, Don’t worry about finding a date or on the other side, trying stridently to assured the fact that you’re single.
Just..have fun, do something to yourself, be happy!
All that money that you’re not spending on an overpriced dinner spend it on yourself. Make a plan about doing something that you’ve been wanting to do for a long time, Get a pedicure, buy a sonic screwdriver, go to an improve class and give yourself the gift of being, heeh..relaxed.
uh, I don’t call anybody pal, do you cal.. it doesn’t matter, if you have pals hang out with them.
Yeah! I am telling you to exercise on Valentine’s Day, and get some fresh air, go on a hike or a bike ride, take your dog on a long walk, after all pets are proven to make you happier
Okay, this is solid one, spend some time at a local soup kitchen, animal shelter or some other charitable organisation that need your help, it’s a great way to give back to the community and help others feel good.
Well guys February 14th is just another day! don’t feel pressured to make it special, in fact, you don’t have to take any advice we gave you today, just be yourself, eat chocolate, surround yourself with people you like, have a breaking bad marathon, do what you need to do.
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It’s a well-known fact that if a person is in love with someone else, he or she should also protect the possessions of his or her sweetheart, as well as look after the welfare of him or her. A Christian Priest, St Bernard, reportedly said in the year 1153:
‘Que me amat, amat et Canem.”
Meaning: ” Anyone who loves me also loves my dog.”
And in the year 1480, another famous saying about love went as follows:
” He that lovytheme, lovythe my hound.”
A hound is a type of dog used for hunting; a foxhound. Additionally, there is a famous saying in French West Africa about love:
” Pas la jalousie, pas l’amour.”
Meaning: ” If there is no jealousy, then there is no love.” Love and jealousy are, therefore, strange bedfellows and that if a man loves a woman he will always be restless if he sees her talking to a stranger and vice versa.
People have grown so busy that personal relationships are now impoverished. Friendships are now harder to keep. Families are shrinking, and not only through divorce. People in developed countries are now having fewer children, and the elderly are not often cared for, at home. And, although human relationships have been categorized into many types, relationships with the opposite sex have been the most common in all cultures under the sun. These relationships could just be platonic ones; they could also be a romantic ones; however, the romantic ones are arguably the “sweetest”. As far as romantic relationships are concerned, they are the same in the East and in the West. Differences, however, would not fail to exist with respect to their longevity, closeness and intensity.
The words “love” and “lover” are used so freely these days that it may not necessarily indicate the dichotomy between an amorous relationship, whereby one partner is usually considered only as a “usable and expendable commodity”, and an intimate companionship, whereby the intended goal is matrimony. Some men want to boast about their priapic conquests. Some sailors are reputedly famous for their priapic episodes ashore ( a girl in every port).
Science and reason may have failed when it comes to dealing with problems of the human heart. Today, we are witnessing a new revolution that will shape the knowledge society of the 21st Century. This revolution affects all aspects of our life- styles, the way we learn, work and communicate with each other; but will it be able to keep marriages intact; insure loyalty between couples; put a stop to child prostitution and pornography; end violence against women once and for all? In short, will it make the world a better and safer place to conduct faithful relationships?
The Somber Princess Diana – the People’s Princess – telling of her lonely and desperate existence in her early married life to the Prince of Wales, Prince Charles, says: “My husband made me feel so inadequate in every possible way,” She told her biographer Andrew Morton. Princess Diana also talks about her several suicide attempts: ” I threw myself down the stairs, bearing in mind I was carrying a child.” She said.
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Some interesting claims have been resurfaced by a 2011 study on online dating, which contains that black men are more likely to date white women, not black women. Black women swore it was the truth, though black men swore it was a myth. So what are the qualities black men should possess to attract white women? Let us move on about it.
1. Keep real
It is easy to honestly say, without hesitation. All you say will be true no matter how you express. While it is hard to lie, because you may hurt women if your lie is revealed. It is important to remember that honesty is the basis of all healthy relationships, so is dating with a white woman. And it is also difficult to affect deliberately. It is not real however you do. So, as a black man, you do not need to embarrass yourself and may lose the trust of your white partner in the end. You will look confident and perform powerfully when you keep real.
2. Think deeply
You will be more attractive if you have profound ideas, because there are few men with deep thoughts. Insightful ideas are especially more attractive to a white woman who is an intellectual than other common issues.
3. Broad Mind
With a broad mind, a black man will be poised and calm, which makes the white woman feel at ease with him. The white female could be sure that she will have a more relaxed life, rarely afraid of anything if she has a long interracial relationship with a black man like this. Because she can fully display her inner world without being afraid of feeling awkward if she is wrong. A black man with a broad mind will smile and make her relax in such situation.
4. Graceful Demeanor
Graceful demeanor is not the patent of white men, black men also could have good behavior when he is dating with a white woman. Without good behavior, a black man cannot touch a white woman’s heart only with superior appearance. But grace does not exclude the personality. Demeanor relates to temperament and depends on the physiological quality, which not only represents the personality tendency, but has a great relationship with occupation. For men, the graceful demeanor is a mature beauty, which most women appreciate, so are black men.
As Winston Churchill, the British Prime Minister, ever said that you will not be able to solve the most difficult problems unless you could understand the most amusing thing all over the world. If a black man has a great sense of humor, he must be very optimistic and have a positive attitude towards his life. He will never frown and keep telling jokes, laugh others to make people ignore the pressure of adversity when he encounters adversity. A white woman will reduce worry when she is dating a black man like this and she will enjoy the date.
6. Keep Romantic When Dating
There is such a famous remark, said by Carnegie, that more than fifty percent of marriages are not happy. And people often agree that marriage is the tomb of love. There is only one obvious difference between married couples and dating ones: the dating couples have an air of romance married ones lack of romance. A romantic black man is very alluring to a white woman.
Remember these seven powerful qualities fascinate most white women for black men. The next time you’re on the date with a white woman to make it successful!
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When some people think about having a relationship, it is often their priority to find the perfect partner. And this can be someone who has qualities and features that are relatively easy to find and go on to include what could be seen by some as, impossible to find.
It could be that one has a list in their mind and is certain about what kind of person they want to be with. Another option is for one to have a list of things that they are looking for, with this being laid out on a piece of paper and not just a mental list.
This could be done in such a way that one has things that are non negotiable and goes on to include things that are not essential. There will be things that are a priority and other elements that can be overlooked.
And it is likely that what one wants their partner to have will be what they value and therefore what they also have themselves. Dov Baron says ‘if you want to find the one, you must become the one’.
So it is then vital that whatever one looks for in another is what they already have themselves or are close to having. To expect another to have what one doesn’t have is going to have the potential to cause problems.
If one is looking for someone who is in good physical shape and they are not in the same position, the other person is probably going to experience conflict. It is likely that they would want to be with someone who is in good shape also.
Of course, one could start going to the gym through being with someone who is that way inclined, but it is an example of one looking to receive something they don’t yet have to give.
So based on this, one will need to be what they want to attract. It is often said that the people one attracts into their life is a reflection of who they are. And this includes what is consciously going on for them and what is going on at a deeper level.
What is going on at a conscious level is what one is going to be aware of and what is going on below that will be what they are unaware off. This is why one can be attracted to and attract people who are the complete opposite of what they want.
On The Surface
But when it comes to the modern day society, attention is generally given to what is seen and not to what is unseen. And so if one wants to attract the perfect partner into their life, then it is often said that one needs to simply ‘look’ the part.
From here, everything will simply fall into place. What is going on beyond ones physical appearances is rarely mentioned in the mainstream and so this could end up being ignored. And this is no surprise, because there is a lot of money to be made by getting people to focus solely on their appearances.
The media gives a lot of attention to people in the public eye who look good and have everything else going for them. However, what the media also shows are people who have relationship problems who look perfect.
In these cases, their looks are not making any difference. They are still having the same problems as people who are not classed as ‘attractive’. But even though this is true, people have been conditioned to believe that looks are the be and end all.
And there are all kinds of things that one can do now to improve their appearance. Cosmetic surgery has created the opportunity for one to do so much more and to change what people in the past had to put up with for life.
Then there are: clothes, make up, facial products, hair styles and even tattoos for instance. And one doesn’t need to have surgery to change their appearance; they can also take on an exercise regime.
And let’s not overlook how important looks are, as human beings we like to be around beauty; If makes us feel good and we appreciate it. So looking good is not bad per se and is something that should be encouraged to a certain degree.
But, one just needs to place their attention on the certain celebrities for a short time and even the people in their lives that are attractive to see that looking good is not enough.
A Deeper Look
So plenty of attention is given to what can be seen with one’s eyes and yet very little attention is given to what can’t be seen. And this is a massive oversight, because we don’t just attract people based on how we look, we also attract them based on what is going on within us.
And if one doesn’t feel ‘beautiful within’ then they are likely to attract people who reflect this inner disharmony. One might have become so cut off from what is going on with them, that when other people reflect it back to them it could feel as though they are being victimised.
What is going on within someone will be a combination of their beliefs, thoughts and emotions. These will come together to define who one attracts and is attracted to. And it won’t matter what is going on externally; as these elements will have the biggest say.
There are cakes that look amazing, with how they are decorated and what they are decorated with. But just because a cake looks good on the outside, it doesn’t mean that one is going to enjoy what is on the inside.
The outside will be what makes one eat the cake, but once they have gone through the icing, they will taste what is on the inside. At first they might be looking forward to eating the cake, but shortly after, they could experience a sense of regret.
Looks will make a difference at the beginning of a relationship, but once time has passed, it will be what is going on behind the looks that will appear. And just like the in the example above, no amount of icing will be able to cover up what is inside.
One of the reasons people have relationships is to heal their history and so the more one deals with their past, the better their relationships will be. To deal with that is going internally, one can seek the assistance of a therapist, healer or a coach. Or engage in their own self study and read up on this area to increase their self awareness.
Prolific writer, thought leader and coach, Oliver JR Cooper hails from the United Kingdom. His insightful commentary and analysis covers all aspects of human transformation; love, partnership, self-love, and inner awareness. With several hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behavior, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice. Current projects include “A Dialogue With The Heart” and “Communication Made Easy.”