The idea of making him love you forever freaks many ladies out, and this makes them behave weirdly when around Him. It goes beyond saying that, you can never force a man to love you, but when he does find affection in you, he will then do anything to please you.
Nevertheless, most ladies will try to push him of just to make him fight harder, even when they are burning with love from deep within. Although it is a strategy to know whether he is serious or not, you do not necessarily need to do that. There are many ways of determining whether a man is in love with you.
Aside from that, men take a longer time to find love as compared to women. If you are a lady and have already identified a man you want to spend your life with, you can then train him into loving you, well, not directly.
Showing a man that you are indeed in love with a man could drive him away for good, but as they say, actions do speak louder than words. For the man to reciprocate and love you deeply, there are a few things men consider rare and not worth letting go.
3 Steps to make a man Love You
1. Act natural and act joyfully
Men love joyful women. The main idea of having him love you is to be happy all the time, and you should always be there to make him happy.
Your personality will determine what he will think about when he sees you, and you can build this over time. Most serous men will only approach a lady after they are certain that she has favorable qualities to live with, and being joyful is one of them.
Although he might not have identified you, nor asked you out, you should not give up and start acting weirdly. Treat him with respect
Do not place a fake smile, but do it passionately though not overly when around him. If he does not get the picture yet, you can then find out what he loves most, and see if you can accommodate that.
Men love ladies who are natural on what they do. This is the reason why you should try to look good at all times, stay neat and watch on your hygiene. You should also try as much as you can to control how you treat other people, even when you are not interested in them.
This creates a clear picture of what kind of a wife you will be in the future, and how you will treat his friends and family when he is not around. A loving and caring woman will capture many people’s hearts, and this will make him love you even more.
Personal hygiene is also very mandatory here, as it shows how you will care for his house. Always ask yourself, would anyone want to live as you do? This question will make you to be very careful with what you wear and how you dress.
A scantily dressed girl will attract many people, but a modest one will attract more serious people, and this is what you need.
2. Be mysterious and leave him wanting more
Most ladies spill out all beans on the first date. Although it might be to the good of the relationship, always try to be reserved as much as you can and tell him what is necessary. Men love mysterious women and women who are ready to preserve what needs and have to be preserved.
You however need not to tell lies to him, nor try to be someone else, because this will drive him off. It is ok not to love some outdoor activities that he likes. You should never try to show him you love everything he does, because it will dawn on him one day that you were lying.
Most women believe that it is a man who is supposed to pay for all bills and other niceties. If you want him to love you forever, and then show him you are different.
If he offers to pay for the dinner, you can then make a slight counter offer and pay for the soft drinks. This will leave him wondering even more, and this will make him have uncertain perceptions about you. This will make him want you even more.
Most ladies do not know how to cook; men love women that can cook. If you do not know how to cook, it would be best if you took a few lessons to learn how to cook.
You should at least know how to prepare tea or even a snack for him. Although this is a rare quality to find in the modern woman today, show him that you too can cook. It would be best if you made a mistake while cooking for him, other than just taking fast foods from the café.
Unlike most women, many men know how to cook their meals, and will do anything to keep a woman who is a good cook. He will love you even more when he realizes that you are ready to cook for him. Since he too wants to spend the rest of his life with you, he will do anything to teach you how to cook, and as you will soon realize, cooking together spices love even more.
3. Do something considerate for him, and be a positive force in his life
Men love it when you appreciate what they do. If you want to love him forever, offer a helping hand whenever possible, and be there to comfort him if some things do not work out.
If you find out that he is struggling with something you are good at, offer assistance to him, though in mediocre pieces not to leave him embarrassed.
Always find time to spend with him especially when handling a tasking and boring chore, and offer as much support as you can when he is down.
There are times when men want some time off, with the boys. Do not be a limiting factor and cut him from his friends. Give him freedom to do what he likes best, and keep you preoccupied as he does so.
If you can hold these qualities on your man, you will be amazed at how he will uphold or do anything for you.
Last but not least, never force your man to do something he is not willing to do. It will look like you are controlling him, and this could be disastrous to your relationship’s health.